• ssfckdt@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 day ago

    I’m guilty of the other way. I really don’t know what else my mother is into nowadays, but since she raised me on Star Trek, I usually just get her Star Trek shit.

    The thing is, she loves it every time. Or claims to.

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      23 hours ago

      Maybe casually ask her sometime if she needs anything? Listen when she expresses interest in a random gadget, piece of cloth, etc? Notice when she gets frustrated with a task that a tool can help with, or that you can volunteer to manage?

      People usually buy gifts they would like, and its so nice she loves it still, but I’d bet she’d be extra happy with a surprise.