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Cake day: June 30th, 2025

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  • I was actually doing a tonne of research back in April on Martens vs Solovairs. Ultimately: go with Solovairs. I’ve had mine since April and have had 0 issues since finding the right ones and getting through the break-in period.

    A few of my notes:

    • Go down 1/2 a size. I recall reading a Reddit thread where users said to go down a full size. I wear a 10, but a 9.5 was the right size for me. I did have to exchange mine, but it was free so Injust had to wait
    • There definitely is a break-in period. The shoes will be a bit uncomfortable, but shouldn’t be unbearable. Once they’re broken in - a week for me IIRC, they’re a dream

    As other lemmings have mentioned: Martens used to be good. But something happened, Martens switched to cheap labour & cheap materials, and a lot of the original workers left & started Solovair.








  • I’d talk to the parents first and let them know what their kid did and how your kid has expressed that they’re not interested in their kid in that way.

    Then I’d probably sit down with both kids and explain to them that while the gesture is very nice, from your perspective and in your culture, this level of gift is seen as a dowry. Usually dowry’s aren’t given unless both parties are for sure interested in each other romantically.

    Now as a teenager, hormones are running wild, and so a friend may come off as a lover. I’d say you’re stepping in and declining the offer to prevent a friendship being ruined. I personally was in the exact same situation, decided to stay friends, and they’re one of my best friends to this day




  • I fully flipped over every device in my house off windows about a week or two ago, and so far so good!

    I’ve been daily driving linux on my personal laptop since 2009 (16 years now!?) for school / work / personal work-esque stuff, and my work laptop is now OSX. A few weeks ago I flipped my gaming machine from windows to popOS and been quite pleasantly surprised at how well gaming on Linux is these days. So much so, I convinced my wife to let me flip her gaming machine to Linux as well.

    The only hiccup I’ve recently had was having to deal with windows-only, non-steam software. Ie. insta360. Luckily, there are compatibility layers / emulators I can use to be able to run it. It’s slow, but good enough.

    At this point, there’s no good reason for me to go back to Windows or anything Microsoft. It’s even become a red flag when I hear a business is using Microsoft’s products. I want to hope Microsoft gets a wake up call at some point soon and turns the ship around, but I think they’ve got too many big-company deals to have to worry about their consumer products being shite.










  • I’m definitely going to raise my kid on older games (maybe not the Atari 2600 per se, but same idea). Newer games don’t teach you how to think or persevere, but adjust feed your dopamine receptors so you’ll keep buying the next game.

    Look at Pokémon. Green / Red / Yellow: tough as shit. Grinded my Pokémon so they’d level up so I could beat the gym boss; and learned that some strategies were better or worse against various problems - ie. certain types of Pokémon were better against other types. Now? You can walk into a gym with a level 3 Magikarp and win the game.

    There are some exceptions like Dark Souls / Elden Ring, bbuutt the general trend for the industry is to make the games trivial, flashy lights, and include day 1 DLC for all that mmoonneeeyyy