Here are the 12 commandments:
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Sexual life shall not develop too early among the proletariat.
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Thou shalt exercise sexual restraint until marriage, and marriage shall take place only upon full social and biological maturity (20-25 years).
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Sexual relations shall be the culmination of a deep and comprehensive sympathy and attachment to the object of thy sexual love.
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The sexual act shall be the final link in a chain of deep and complex experiences binding the lovers together at that moment.
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The sexual act shall not be repeated often.
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Thou shalt not often change thy sexual object. There shall be less sexual variation.
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Love shall be monogamous and monoandrous (one wife, one husband).
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Every sexual act must be committed without forgetting the possibility of conceiving a child – thou shalt always remember thy progeny.
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Sexual selection shall always be conducted along the lines of revolutionary-proletarian class objectives. Elements of flirtation, skirt-chasing, coquetry, and other particular methods of sexual conquest must not be introduced into love relations.
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Thou shalt not be jealous.
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Thou shalt not engage in sexual perversions.
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In the interest of revolutionary expedience, class shall have the right to interfere in the sexual life of its co-members; the sexual shall always be subordinate to class interests, never interfering with the latter, but shall always serve it.
Apparently Kollontai didn’t develop the Glass of Water theory. I don’t know how true that is, since I’ve never even heard of Kollontai until I read your post, but this article is an interesting read nonetheless: https://www.marxists.org/history/etol/newspape/atc/1724.html