виктор, он (viktor, he/him)
gender-fluid, trans-masc
she/he (она/он) (prefer he/him)
anti-discrimination!! 🇷🇺 🇺🇸
слава україні! 🇺🇦 ❤️ anti-war
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виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot?
3·6 months agothank you so much! we broke up but thankfully not for leaving each other on read :) tysm!
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot?
3·6 months agothank you!! we broke up for other reasons, thankfully
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot?
1·6 months agohe changed his mind and said he wanted me to talk to him, and I did, but not 24/7.
I didn’t even talk to him much, he just left me on read or only said “cool” even when we did talk
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot?
2·6 months agowhat about “hi? how are you?” or “I love you so much <3”
to be fair, he never knew what to say in our relationship, he was basically a man of a few words.
that makes sense, I didn’t send a lot of messages to him, I acknowledge that he doesn’t “wanna talk to me 24/7 or every day”
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•is it good/common/whatever to leave your romantic partner on "read" a lot?
3·6 months agoalmost every day or every other day for hours “I don’t wanna talk to you 24/7 every day!!”
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
1·6 months agohe preferred social media and fortnite to me anyway 😭
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
2·6 months agothanks!!!
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
3·6 months agook so I broke up with him… at first, he told me to please not leave but then he said, before I blocked him, “whatever I don’t like you or love you anyway”
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
5·6 months agothank you so much, imma break up with him. I won’t let him hurt me :)
i also don’t know why he said he was straight when he’s literally dating a dude
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
4·6 months agowell, I’m working on not being so clingy and sometimes I can get depressed so I log off to stop from spiraling in front of him
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•some stuff happened but i'm so much better now!!English
4·6 months agothanks so much, i’ll look out for myself. is it at least normal that he blames me for stuff sometimes because he’s stressed? I won’t say it’s okay generally, but is it okay if he was in a bad mood?
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•when is "cool" fine and when is it rude?
9·6 months agowhat if it’s “Cool.” over text? it seems fine to me but people have gotten similar responses saying it’s passive-aggressive.
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•I hope everything is okEnglish
2·6 months agothat’s awesome that you started a club!! we took a break and he was more affectionate towards me after, he said he was depressed and that I didn’t actually wear him out but he says stuff when he’s in a bad mood and that’s why he hurt me sometimes. he also said “I don’t wanna text you every day and every hour” but then he texted first :) yay!!
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•I hope everything is okEnglish
3·6 months agowe took a break for a few hours, he said his depression was getting to him. thanks so much! maybe he needs to burrito :))
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•I hope everything is okEnglish
4·6 months ago22m me, 21m him
виктор, он (viktor, he/him)@sh.itjust.worksOPtoMental Health@lemmy.world•I hope everything is okEnglish
6·6 months ago“I like you but I don’t think I can deal with this anymore. I really don’t like talking to people and I can’t commit. I’m sorry. I’m not going to break up with you, I just don’t like talking.”
It’s 2
“i like you, but you wear me out.”






Ukraine, IMO, but my family say russia