i can be hopeful then, im a teen

YES. This is how she behaves!!

yeah, she either apologizes because she “can’t control herself” or blames me

she’s actually my “close friend” but I don’t consider her that for obvious reasons

so this is just like textbook narcissism and not just an asshole?

pona tawa sina!!

its a rant :,)

nothing they do is ever their fault, and what I do is never good enough for them

yeah, makes sense.

Eh, a lil bit

Agreed, as an AFAB person myself

She is doing better 😊

ah no i just asked her how she was doing bc she seemed upset

just a lil bit

we do!! she’s better now, i cant ask them bc they’re friends w her ex who has a crush on her

yeah kinda

but her behavior was also confusing me even in a friend way

makes sense

ok tysm, last time i tried to ask she just said she was fine

She’s usually busy with sports/inactive on phone. plus, she and her ex like each other (tho she says it’s not true, they flirt and ex fs likes her) and her ex happens to be a close friend

But i’ll try asking

she supposedly likes someone else that she broke up w 2 yrs ago, unless she likes two ppl at once

ig not all ppl are openly flirty when they feel this way but still. i did act avoidant towards my crushes.

if she didn’t see things as just friends, it might explain a lot better, but im not confident, i just assume no