

Definitely not, I think that might be sort of rude. I was more just sharing my own similar experience. If the guy is harmless he probably enjoys having someone else to talk to about it, and it always feels nice to share “insider information” to a trusted confidant. I would just be concerned if they start being pushy about getting you into the “in group”
100% this. Absolutely true. If he’s a good friend keep at it and maybe keep an eye on him if he needs help.