Very submissive guy from Europe, heteroflexible

Want to experiment with exhibitionism.

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Cake day: November 15th, 2023

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  • Individualism is kinda the opposite of confucianism. Confucianism teaches that an individual is worth nothing and they must give all to family and state. I don’t agree with that. I deeply believe in thriving through self-exploration, free from peer pressure and especially religious dogma.

    I wasn’t directly thinking about work ethic there, I just really hate the basic principles of Confucianism. I feel it’s restricting people. In the western world we have the same things, but they come from religions and conservatism instead (see the hate against trans people these days in the US). They’re also not as strongly embedded into society as they are in Confucian countries as far as I can tell. We value individualism a lot more, especially on the leftish/progressive side.

    The reason I mentioned it is because Confucianism is often idolised in the Western world (“look there in China / Korea they still care about each other!”) but it’s also a terrible straightjacket for people not able or willing to conform to whatever stuff their society expects. Because people that impose rules upon themselves tend to want to impose those rules upon others even those that don’t share their belief.

    I don’t mind others having belief systems but let me have none. And that’s really the part where things tend to not work out.


  • Yeah I like Abby Winters, at least their hetero stuff. Not too much a fan of the solo and lesbian stuff, for that reason I don’t really like ifeelmyself, but I do like the aesthetics of it.

    You might also like stuff from Erika Lust / XConfessions. It’s also very arty and real.

    And yeah I wouldn’t share form sites I pay for either especially because they might have some kind of watermark. I only subscribe to SexLikeReal because VR content is not readily available on the web yet. And they allow you to download 30 vids every 2 weeks (as well as stream unlimited) and have integrations for stroker synchronisation which I use as well. The content is a bit of everything there.