You’re not getting my point.

Or the example I asked for …

I’m saying that parent being involve in the chosing of a parter is the way it is done in many place in the world and it does not equate to unhappy or force mariage

Where? Give me an example

If someone is force against, which there is no mention or suggestion of, it is the guy.

And he’s complaining about the lack of women being forced into this…