No no no, we get to eat the tacos in the kitchen while we wait for the jello to set.
I’m a stay at home wife, I make sure my husband has a homecooked meal that I slaved over for hours! Like corned beef in aspic with celery jello salad.
Oops I didn’t make enough for myself, that’s okay I already had a taco as a snack, and my husband works so hard all day to support my life here in this kitchen so he deserves the whole bowl of jello to himself.
While he’s eating I’ll just add some things to the shopping list, we need more marichino cherries, and we’re out of rat poison.
I’m far from a traditionalist, and I know this is fake and a joke, but I’m bored on my lunch break, so I’m just gonna point out how I find it funny that you agreed to marry someone with different values than yourself, agreed to remain unemployed instead of finding childcare (if you can) or are blaming America’s childcare crisis (of which there is one, in case anyone was unaware) on your spouse, and live completely off your husband’s dime, and the poor sap can’t even get spared a taco that he bought all the ingredients for.
I’d like to tell you about a wonderful new invention, they call it “divorce.” Quit blaming everyone else for all your problems and leave, hell just “go out for a pack of smokes” and vanish into the night if you want, or take the gun he must be holding to your head and say “now you stay home and cook, I’m breadwinner now” and that’s awesome, I wish I could find me one of those myself, I’ll cook that woman some damn good meals and pack her lunch with a note and a goddamn kiss every morning, but you are the architect of your own misfortune and have the power to change your destiny in this situation.
That is all, back to joking lol I gotta clock back in now.
I’d like to tell you about a wonderful new invention, they call it “divorce.”
Yes exactly. No fault divorce is the simple and obvious answer.
That wasn’t an option for my mother or my grandmother. There was no way for a woman to initiate a divorce.
My mother couldn’t open a bank account in her name, she needed a man (her father, brother, or husband) to co-sign.
So “going out for cigarettes” also wasn’t easy, she could leave, sure, but once the cash she had in hand ran out, then what? Her income would still be going into her husbands bank account, she can’t change where the money goes because she doesn’t have any other bank account for her employer to pay into.
The Second wave feminist movement is what pushed to provide women the right to manage their own finances and affairs, and also gave us no-fault divorce laws.
So yes, “Quit blaming everyone else for all your problems and leave” is good advice for women who have the legal freedom to move about their country and be independent members of society. That hasn’t historically been the case, and it’s currently not the case for many women in many countries with different laws. Those women have fewer options, and rat poison is cheap.
Even with no fault divorce and the ability for women to own property, have a bank account, and work for an income paid directly to them,
There will always be individually nuanced situations that are more complex and don’t allow for an easy exit, especially when domestic violence or financial abuse is involved. (eg: I’m working disabled, my boyfriend holds my medical guardianship, hypothetically, if we mutually broke up, I couldn’t make a “clean break” until I got that legal loose end tied up, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to book a doctor’s appointment or get a flu shot without my ex-boyfriend’s signature, and transferring guardianship takes months, and money. During a mutual break up that’s okay, but if I needed to “leave him” and he didn’t want his affordable maid and nanny to go, I’d have an incredibly difficult time getting my life back to myself… But fortunately it’s 2024 so there is a process I can follow, not every woman has had those same rights to leave like I have.
None of the options you named were available to a woman in the “great” days they want to bring back. Forced marriage, forced sex,forced childbirth, forced joblessness, it’s all in their goals. And in the new Great Days, surveillance will make even the strychnine solution impossible.
They can take tacos from my cold dead greasy fingers, also my hand and wrist got some juice on it because I can get carried away with the sauce sometimes.
Okay have your tacos, and follow it with gelatina de mosaico! That’s cubes of fruit jello mixed in a base of tres leches jello. The fruit flavors can be made with real fruit and unflavored gelatin, if you’re an intellectual. 🧐
Okay, here’s some tacos for you then. If you’re not into
home cooking, the last one is a visit to a taco stand in Monterrey. I like to watch her enjoy eating food.
Man get fucked I’ll never give up tacos
No no no, we get to eat the tacos in the kitchen while we wait for the jello to set.
I’m a stay at home wife, I make sure my husband has a homecooked meal that I slaved over for hours! Like corned beef in aspic with celery jello salad.
Oops I didn’t make enough for myself, that’s okay I already had a taco as a snack, and my husband works so hard all day to support my life here in this kitchen so he deserves the whole bowl of jello to himself.
While he’s eating I’ll just add some things to the shopping list, we need more marichino cherries, and we’re out of rat poison.
I’m far from a traditionalist, and I know this is fake and a joke, but I’m bored on my lunch break, so I’m just gonna point out how I find it funny that you agreed to marry someone with different values than yourself, agreed to remain unemployed instead of finding childcare (if you can) or are blaming America’s childcare crisis (of which there is one, in case anyone was unaware) on your spouse, and live completely off your husband’s dime, and the poor sap can’t even get spared a taco that he bought all the ingredients for.
I’d like to tell you about a wonderful new invention, they call it “divorce.” Quit blaming everyone else for all your problems and leave, hell just “go out for a pack of smokes” and vanish into the night if you want, or take the gun he must be holding to your head and say “now you stay home and cook, I’m breadwinner now” and that’s awesome, I wish I could find me one of those myself, I’ll cook that woman some damn good meals and pack her lunch with a note and a goddamn kiss every morning, but you are the architect of your own misfortune and have the power to change your destiny in this situation.
That is all, back to joking lol I gotta clock back in now.
Yes exactly. No fault divorce is the simple and obvious answer.
That wasn’t an option for my mother or my grandmother. There was no way for a woman to initiate a divorce.
My mother couldn’t open a bank account in her name, she needed a man (her father, brother, or husband) to co-sign.
So “going out for cigarettes” also wasn’t easy, she could leave, sure, but once the cash she had in hand ran out, then what? Her income would still be going into her husbands bank account, she can’t change where the money goes because she doesn’t have any other bank account for her employer to pay into.
The Second wave feminist movement is what pushed to provide women the right to manage their own finances and affairs, and also gave us no-fault divorce laws.
So yes, “Quit blaming everyone else for all your problems and leave” is good advice for women who have the legal freedom to move about their country and be independent members of society. That hasn’t historically been the case, and it’s currently not the case for many women in many countries with different laws. Those women have fewer options, and rat poison is cheap.
Even with no fault divorce and the ability for women to own property, have a bank account, and work for an income paid directly to them, There will always be individually nuanced situations that are more complex and don’t allow for an easy exit, especially when domestic violence or financial abuse is involved. (eg: I’m working disabled, my boyfriend holds my medical guardianship, hypothetically, if we mutually broke up, I couldn’t make a “clean break” until I got that legal loose end tied up, otherwise I wouldn’t be able to book a doctor’s appointment or get a flu shot without my ex-boyfriend’s signature, and transferring guardianship takes months, and money. During a mutual break up that’s okay, but if I needed to “leave him” and he didn’t want his affordable maid and nanny to go, I’d have an incredibly difficult time getting my life back to myself… But fortunately it’s 2024 so there is a process I can follow, not every woman has had those same rights to leave like I have.
None of the options you named were available to a woman in the “great” days they want to bring back. Forced marriage, forced sex,forced childbirth, forced joblessness, it’s all in their goals. And in the new Great Days, surveillance will make even the strychnine solution impossible.
They can take tacos from my cold dead greasy fingers, also my hand and wrist got some juice on it because I can get carried away with the sauce sometimes.
Okay have your tacos, and follow it with gelatina de mosaico! That’s cubes of fruit jello mixed in a base of tres leches jello. The fruit flavors can be made with real fruit and unflavored gelatin, if you’re an intellectual. 🧐
Miss me with that nonsense.
Okay, here’s some tacos for you then. If you’re not into home cooking, the last one is a visit to a taco stand in Monterrey. I like to watch her enjoy eating food.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HWVqVDk1A_c
https://patijinich.com/video/bricklayer-style-beef-tacos/
https://patijinich.com/video/tacos-del-muerto-in-monterrey/