• gibmiser@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Virgins don’t know that you suck at sex. It’s an insecurity thing. Most people don’t realize it.

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      4 months ago

      And then there’s me. Who has been with one woman, who was actually appalled by the whole attachment thing, but controlled so much of my life that I became permanently awkward, uncomfortable AND stuck with super low self esteem.

      I don’t know if I suck at sex, or just suck in general. If I survive this divorce I’ll take that win right now.

      • Croquette@sh.itjust.works
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        4 months ago

        For whatever reason, we make sex weird. Communicate with your future partners and it will be a lot more enjoyable for both of you.

        You got this.