I have no idea how to make friends at my uni and I was hoping to hear some success stories.

  • Arotrios
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    511 months ago

    JFC stop with the self-flagellation already. It’s not about you being a bad person, or being different, or being right or wrong. It’s about you liking yourself enough to project that to others. Right now, you’re projecting as someone who’s been so badly hurt that they can’t realize when someone is trying to help them, and strikes out at those who are willing to help them.

    Who would want to be friends with someone like that?

    • Alexmitter
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      11 months ago

      Had to think about this today and really have to tell you how amazed I am how oblivious you are to reality.
      Those Bullies, have they just made poof and vanished from the surface of this world? No, they are still there and they still do what they always did.
      If the People did not like you when you were young, they don’t like you now either and that for the same reasons, and you are just too blind or naive to smell that.
      Self love comes from seeing that others love you, if others don’t, and you still act it, you are just acting narcissistic and everyone knows.
      You tell us all, in all honesty, that how we are is wrong and we should be different for people to like us, and rejecting this ridiculous idea makes us “so badly hurt that they can’t realize when someone is trying to help them, and strikes out at those who are willing to help them.”. You are so full of yourself, and you love yourself, we can all sense that.

      • Arotrios
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        111 months ago

        You’re still going off about this? Dude, you’ve been blocked for weeks. Nobody’s got time for your whining. It’s clear that you’re so miserable with who you are that you want to take people to task for liking themselves, and yep, no one will ever want to be friends with someone like that.

        Seek help. Seriously. This is indicative of more going on than an autism diagnosis. You have severe self-worth issues that you need to engage with a trained therapist. I’m reblocking you as it’s clear you’re not in a state to have any sort of meaningful conversation until you do a lot of work on yourself.

        • Alexmitter
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          111 months ago

          It’s clear that you’re so miserable with who you are that you want to take people to task for liking themselves, and yep, no one will ever want to be friends with someone like that.

          Better then being full of myself, clearly.

          Seek help. Seriously. This is indicative of more going on than an autism diagnosis. You have severe self-worth issues that you need to engage with a trained therapist.

          I may need help, but so do you Mr. Giant Ego.

          I’m reblocking you as it’s clear you’re not in a state to have any sort of meaningful conversation until you do a lot of work on yourself.

          So you say.

          • Arotrios
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            111 months ago

            Since kbin’s got a bug where I still get notifications that you’d rather pout at random internet strangers than get help, here you go:

            10 Best Online Therapy Services

            Go whine at someone who’s paid to care.

            • Alexmitter
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              111 months ago

              That’s the consequence of your own action. You gave advice that is simply said dangerous, you seem to have absolutely zero clue about the life of aspergers outside your imaginary rosa glassed world. And now you wine about being told that to me, and to SuddenDownpour who you called high on crack. You are a danger and you need help. You should really be taken your rosa glasses off, you need a dose of reality, its something you need to endure to understand reality.

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      11 months ago

      Yea, I guessed you just wanted to help. You don’t, you are just full of yourself.